What I Love About You: Questions for Couples

What I Love About You: Questions for Couples is a fun and unique way to get to know your partner better. By answering these questions, you will learn more about what they love about you and what makes them tick.

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What I Love About You: Questions for Couples is a book that contains a series of questions designed to help couples to get to know each other better. The questions cover a wide range of topics, including family, friends, work, leisure activities, and more. The book also includes tips on how to make the most of the questions, as well as how to use them to improve communication and strengthen relationships.

What I love about you

What I love about you is that there’s always something new to discover. Every day, you find new ways to make me smile, new reasons to be grateful for having you in my life. I love the way you think, the way you dream. I even love the way you argue – because it shows me how passionate you are about everything, including me.

I love the way you’re always up for anything, whether it’s going on an adventure or just staying in and cuddling. I love how fearless you are, and how you’re always willing to try something new. But most of all, I love how much you love me – even on my worst days, even when I’m not at my best. You never fail to remind me of how lucky I am to be with you.

So why not let your partner know how much they mean to you with this simple questionnaire? Whether it’s been a few weeks or a few years, asking each other these questions is a fun way to reflect on all the things that make your relationship unique – and special.

Questions for couples

If you’re like most people, you probably think you know your partner pretty well. But how well do you really know them? Do you know their hopes, dreams, and fears? Do you know what they love about themselves, both the good and the bad?

Knowing your partner on a deeper level can enhance your relationship in many ways. It can bring you closer together, help you to understand and accept each other better, and foster a greater sense of intimacy. It can also help you to avoid potential conflict by giving you a better understanding of each other’s needs and wants.

So how can you get to know your partner on a deeper level? One way is to ask them the following questions:

-What are your hopes and dreams for the future?
-What are your biggest fears?
-What do you love about yourself, both the good and the bad?
-What are your thoughts on marriage and family?
-What are your favorite memories from childhood?
-Do you have any regrets in life? If so, what are they?
-How would you describe yourself both physically and emotionally?
-Do you have any unfulfilled desires or fantasies?
-Do you have any secrets, either big or small?
-What do you love most about our relationship?

Why these questions are important

Couples often ask each other questions out of habit, without really thinking about what they are saying. If you want to connect on a deeper level with your partner, these questions can help.

Asking your partner about their favorite things shows that you are interested in them and that you care about their happiness. It also gives you a chance to learn more about them and to bond over shared interests and experiences.

These questions can also help you to find out what makes your partner happy and to make sure that you are doing things that bring them joy. If you know what makes them happy, you can do more of those things!

Finally, these questions can open up communication about any problems or issues that you might be having in your relationship. If something is bothering your partner, asking about it directly can help to resolve the issue.

How to use these questions

These questions are meant to be used as a starting point for couples who want to deepen their connection with each other. They can be used in person or over text, and can be answered all at once or one at a time. There is no right or wrong way to use them, but we recommend setting aside some time (maybe an hour or so) to really dive into the answers.

Examples of questions

To help you get started thinking about what you love about your partner, here are some examples of questions:
-What are the qualities you love most about your partner?
-What is your favorite thing to do together?
-What was your partner’s best day ever?
-What is the funniest thing that has ever happened between you two?
-What are three words that describe how your partner makes you feel?


We hope you enjoyed learning a little more about your partner with these questions! If you want to keep the conversation going, try asking follow-up questions or sharing your own answers to the questions. Remember, communication is key in any relationship, so keep talking to each other and you’ll only get closer!

Further reading

Whether you’re looking to spice up your relationship or simply get to know your partner better, these questions for couples are sure to help. If you’re looking for something more light-hearted, check out our list of fun things to do as a couple. And if you’re looking for ways to improve communication and intimacy, be sure to read our post on the best questions to ask your partner.


1) What was your favorite memory of our time together?
2) What are the things you love about me?
3) What is your favorite thing to do with me?
4) Why do you love me?
5) What are the things you are grateful for in our relationship?
6) What is your favorite thing about being in a relationship with me?

About the author

Wendy Larkin is the author of What I Love About You: Questions for Couples and Love Notes: A Journal for Two. She has also written articles for a variety of publications, including “Parenting” and “Grand.” Wendy has a bachelor’s degree in English from the University of Notre Dame.

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